daily word - truthful and loving

Are you ever in a dilemma between being truthful and loving? If someone asks your opinion about their appearance and you are not favorably impressed, should you say so? This question can put you in an awkward position and knowing this you can refrain from putting others in this position, but what if it is directed at you? But perhaps the problem isn’t the way they look but your ability to see. For all people are beautiful to me. If they do not appear this way to you then ask me to improve your ability to see things and people the way they really are, and you will be able to respond to them by speaking the truth in love.