Terms of Endearment
There are different types of relationships and they use completely different terminology. The legal system uses terms that are formal and highly structured. Contracts are written to be binding with obligations and penalties clearly spelled out. Friendship is based on affection and shared interests and values. The terms of friendship are the terms of endearment. If you spoke to your friends in legal terminology would you expect them to remain your friends? My word distinguishes between the covenants of law and grace. In the covenant of grace I call you my friends. It is appropriate for you to address me as a friend, in terms of endearment rather than terms of law.