How do you view prayer? There are verses in the Bible that imply that you can get anything you want. Are these your favorites? Is this your focus in prayer? How has this worked out for you as a matter of practical experience? There are other verses, less well known and quoted, that imply that prayer is more about conforming to the Father. As I said myself, not my will but thine be done. So here are two approaches to prayer from completely different perspectives. You may have used both at various times. Do you see yourself moving from one to the other? Which is the greater victory, for your will to be done, or mine? 

Do you understand what it means to be co-opted? This is when someone is able to enlist your support for a cause that is against your interests. It is typically is used with regard to one organization in relation to another, such as a government co-opting a church or the press, but the same concept can apply to individuals. This represents a voluntary loss of liberty. I have called you to stand fast in the liberty in which I have made you free, and not be entangled again in the yoke of bondage. No man can serve two masters, and if I am your master you can have no other. No one can take your liberty from you. Don’t give it away. 

Are you a master of accommodation? You may not describe yourself this way, but this is an accurate description of nearly everyone you meet whether you use this terminology or not. You have an intense longing for connection whether you recognize it or not. You would like to be recognized and accepted for who you really are, but the desire is so strong that you will find a way whether it is congruent with the truth of your being or not. Have you ever found yourself adjusting your behavior, mannerisms, and what you say to conform to a group for acceptance even if it wasn’t your true identity? You may even have to do this in your church but you don’t have to do it with me. 

Do you look at everything as a spiritual experience? What about paying your bills? This may seem like the most mundane and least spiritual thing that you do, but it is an expression of your character and has a direct influence on your reputation in your community among both believers and non-believers. I spoke a great deal about money because it is an indicator of your values and your heart, for where your treasure is there will your heart be also. Do you think of your charitable giving and financial support of gospel work as a spiritual experience? I want you to manage the rest of your money and pay your bills with the same attitude.