How interested are you in the stories of other people? You will find that they love things that hold no appeal for you. Yet it is still beneficial for you to encounter them and learn what gives meaning and purpose to their lives, even if it is different from what motivates you. They have a limited perspective, but then so do you. You can engage with them to understand them without trying to show them they are wrong.
What do you think of as worship? Does it only involve music? My own description of worship was that it should be done in spirit and in truth. Do you find that this statement raises as many questions as it answers? Did I ever command my disciples to worship me? What I did was to invite them to follow me. This would involve activities that you don’t normally think of as worship, such as healing the sick, providing for the poor, and declaring the good news of redemption to those who are lost in darkness. Do you understand that imitation is the most sincere compliment?
Do you think of your church as my house? Where is the house you would build for me? Heaven is my throne and earth is my footstool. It facilitates your assembling together to have a roof over your head, and lights and heat and a place to sit. But I don’t need any of those things. If thinking of your church as my house facilitates a sense of reverence for my presence, then that is a beneficial aspect. But this thinking can work against you if you think a building contains me, or make a strong distinction between the space inside a church and outside.
Can you listen as well as you hear? This sounds like a silly question, but there can be a vast difference between these things. You have heard of people talking past one another, or over their heads, or in one ear and out the other. So you have many cultural metaphors that address this issue and my invitation for those who had ears to hear, that they should hear, makes the same point. Any message is received according to the manner of the one who hears it. What influences are present in your life that affect your ability to hear clearly? Do you have any biases or preconceptions?
What is your lesson today? Students go to class expecting to have a lesson prepared for them. This is normal in a structured classroom environment. Do you stop learning when you graduate from school? Even if you are not in a structured academic setting you should still think in terms of constant learning. I sent the Holy Spirit to lead you into all truth, and this is an ongoing process. It works better when you know it is happening, and when you are alert and aware. If you aren’t sure you can always ask me what your lesson is for today.
Would you say that your faith is what you believe? Would it be a more accurate statement to say that your faith is what you live? Believing is easy in comparison. You know that I accept you and your name is in the Book of Life on the basis of your beliefs. With that issue settled, how should you then live? Your words can give testimony to your beliefs, but your life is a testimony that speaks louder than words. What does yours say? If your testimony consisted visible actions apart from doctrinal professions or church practices, what would it say about your life?
My word tells you not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Does this mean you should avoid all contact with them? There is another passage that says no to that. Christianity does not require isolation; in fact it works better without it. It is easier to think that you are better than you are when you are alone, but contact with others reveals and refines you. A yoke implies a constraint of common purpose. You shouldn’t enter a binding condition like marriage with someone who does not share your ultimate views.
Are there consequences for disobeying the Lord's leading in our life? After reading this, you may want to ask, "Lord, is there an area in my life where I am not fully obeying You?"
Have you ever faced rejection? Everyone does at some time. Did you feel you were rejected by everyone? Wouldn’t it be more accurate to say that you were rejected by those whose attention you desired? Have you noticed that you are attracted to those above you, and attractive to those below you? So rejection is seldom universal, but you feel it most strongly from a select group. Rejection is painful, but part of the problem may be that you are being too selective. I said that when you showed kindness unto the least of these you had done it unto me. This works for friendship too.
What do you think of as courage? A soldier going forth to meet the enemy, fully armed and armored, and backed up by an extensive network of intelligence, supply, and command? It takes courage to face any enemy, and no decent commander would send his troops forth without giving them every advantage for victory. But how much more courage does it take to move into an unknown future in an undefended state? This is a choice for everyone, not just soldiers. Are you aware of the cost to be habitually defensive, and how much greater fullness of life is available if you are not?
