Dale Cresap's blog

Have you noticed that in response to simple questions you hear the response ‘it’s complicated’ more often? Do you find the degree of complexity in your own life to be increasing to the point of being overwhelming? Is it hard enough to figure out your own course even without allowing for random events beyond your control? Do you understand that I am the solution to the problem of complexity? That is to say, do you find it reassuring and comforting to know that a benevolent supreme being watches over you and will not allow you to be subject to more than you can endure?

Are you familiar with the concept of privilege? This has become a loaded word, and used as an accusation and a means of political leverage against broad groups of people considered to have advantages. The concept of privilege has been around longer than identity politics but there is a positive way in which to approach it. I said that of whom much is given much is required. Do you have advantages resulting from your education, financial position, or even the years you have spent seeking the Kingdom of God? These put you in a position to make great contributions to the Kingdom.

Do you see evil in other people? Are you sure that you are right, and that you are exercising righteous judgment? It is a well settled principle of logic and law that the burden of proof falls on the one making the accusation. Do you have proof for your assertions? You may have, but you may also be putting more time and effort into being an accuser than the situation warrants. Are you looking more for opportunities for retribution or restorative justice? I have told you not to judge but you can do restorative justice without doing that.

Can you examine your life and see that you have shortcomings and weaknesses and bad habits? Do you identify with these things or do you see them as peripheral to your true identity? You are correct if you do not see them as the essence of your being. Do you apply the same standard to others? When you see other people demonstrating consistently bad behavior do you see it as intrinsic to their being? Are you aware that you shall be judged by the same standards by which you judge others? To be consistent you should extend the same grace to others that you extend to yourself.

Have you ever been held in contempt? Have you ever held others in contempt? This is often confused with belligerence or hostility, but is more subtle and actually worse. You can acknowledge the essential humanity of those with whom you are angry, but to be contemptuous is to fail to recognize this humanity. How is this worse? Isn’t everyone made in my image? This is the basis for the sanctity of life and your point of connection to every person. To fail to see this is to misunderstand me, and yourself, and the entire human community.

Do you understand the value of discipline in your life, or do you see it only as punishment? Trains are a great form of transportation and their development has facilitated the growth of commerce but only if they stay on the rails. Otherwise you have a train wreck and this has become an appropriate cultural proverb for things going very badly. So discipline could be viewed as a matter of keeping the train on the rails. Of course trains are limited to going where the rails go. Do not be discouraged by this or reject the concept of discipline.

How many friends do you have? Are your friends closely aligned with your own positions, and prone to support you in whatever you do, or do they see the ways in which you are not becoming your best self and challenge you to move in that direction? It is easy and comforting to find friends who are similar to you, but is this best for you? If they have the same biases and prejudices you do then they may reinforce things that are not working for you rather than encouraging you to move beyond them. Do you have friends who will help you move into a better version of yourself?

Do you tolerate more from your children than you would from others? it is easy to criticize other parents for being too lenient with their children. It is not so easy when they are your own. The bond of relationship is strong, so sons and daughters can get away with more than servants can, who are merely hired. You can see this in family dynamics on earth. Do you think that the same principle applies with your Father in heaven? Are you aware that you experience favor with me based neither on your performance nor on legally derived claims but rather on relationship?

Have you heard that change is inevitable? This is a widely accepted proverb. If you recognize that this is true do you accept change or resist it? Does it seem futile to resist something that is inevitable? Do you cling to things that no longer work or try to hold together things that are falling apart? Even things that are useful and I have blessed may have a limited lifespan and there is wisdom in knowing when to let them go. Do you see my work in your life as static, or as a progression? Can you look back and see the arc of progress that your life has taken until now?

Are you a gambler? Different denominations have different policies that they expect their adherents to follow in this matter, but most believers do not routinely play games of chance. Yet life forces you to make some decisions without complete information, so you can be risk averse or risk tolerant even without betting money at odds. Do you see me as a gambler? You may see this as an odd question, but consider how much favor and blessing I have lavished upon you hoping that you will respond and come to me. Do you see this as a large bet on my part? In your case I’m all-in.